Friday Fashionista – Down with Abercrombie and Bowling Shoes

I have found myself perplexed about why so many gay men are sporting Abercrombie these days. It may be okay for the under 25 crowd, but there comes a point in a man’s life where he needs to put aside boyish clothing. To be completely honest, I don’t find much there in the way of fashion. It does not take that much imagination to look like a frat boy in ripped up jeans and a shirt with a number on it.

Here is my plea to you men – give up the Abercrombie and save it for the 15 to 25 year olds. It’s time to dress like a man – that does not mean boring. By no means am I advocating you run to the nearest Haband to purchase a pair of forever-fit elastic waistband pants. No, no, no. I AM advocating dressing age-appropriately. There was an article in Details a few months ago with some sage advice for the 20 something’s, the 30’s guys and men in their 40’s and 50’s (sorry guys but the Details online archive kind of sucks – I will look through my old issues at home). Each age group was given several examples and options that were flattering to the stage of life as well as lifestyle typical of each group. Let’s face it men, along with getting older, there is the added benefit (hopefully) of more disposable income to dress better than we did previously. It’s a good thing to be able to afford nicer things than we could when we were in our twenties or thirties.

On another topic, someone asked few weeks ago about the “bowling style” shoes that were very popular a few years ago. I gave a brief answer, but I wanted to elaborate a little more. These shoes had their moment about 3 or 4 years ago – perhaps longer. If you are wearing these things, get rid of them. If you find yourself at DSW looking over these shoes, step away. If you really feel the need to have something hot and now, get yourself some of the 70’s retro takes on athletic shoes such as the Puma that have become so popular. Or you can always go with a classic such as the Converse – they never go out of style. And whether you are 18 or 48, they look good.

As always, keep the questions coming – your humble Friday Fashionista lives to serve.