Monday, April 02, 2007

20 Years

Yesterday, the LTR and I celebrated our 20th anniversary.

People sometimes ask "what's the secret?"

There isn't one. No magic answers, no silver bullet, no Cupid's arrow to pin you together forever. Love isn't necessarily enough (though a necessary ingredient). No, it's a lot of work, compromise and communication. And mostly, it's a choice.

I'm happy with the choice I've made. I love the LTR. Our relationship is not perfect (are there any?) but he and it make me happy.

He's in Denver now.

Sweet dreams, H. I miss you.

1 comment:

DC Palm Central said...

Awwww honey!!! LTR here. Hugs and kisses! Does this mean I have the job for 20 more years if I want it?

p.s. What do you mean our relationship isn't perfect? Isn't this where I set my humble nature aside and state, for the record, that "this half of the relationship is perfect???"